Sunan Ibn Majah, Chapter: The Chapters on Marriage

"I heard Fathima bint Qais say: 'The Messenger of Allah (saw) said to me: "When you become lawful, tell me." So I told him.' Then Muawiyah, Abu Jahm bin Sukhair and Usamah bin Zaid proposed marriage to her. The Messenger of Allah (saw) said: 'As for Muawiyah, he is a poor man who has no money. As from Abu Jahm he is a man who habitually beats woman. But Usamah (is good).' She gestured with her hand, saying: 'Usamah, Usaman!?' The Messenger of Allah (saw) said to her: 'Obedience to Allah and obedience to His Messenger is better for you.' She said: 'So I married him and I was pleased with him.' "