Sunan Ibn Majah, Chapter: Chapters Regarding Funerals

from Musa bin Abu Musa Ashari, from his father that The Prophet (saw) said: "The deceased is punished for the weeping of the living. If they say: 'O my strength, O he who clothed us, O my help, O my rock,' and so on, he is rebuked and it is said: 'Were you really like that? Were you really like that?'" Asid said: "I said: 'Subhan-Allah! Allah says: "And no bearer of burdens shall another's burden (35:18)." He said: "Woe to you, I tell you that Abu Musa narrated to me from the Messenger of Allah (saw), and you think that Abu Musa was telling lies about The Prophet (saw)? Or do you think that I am telling lies about Abu Musa?" Hasan